I asked myself this question often. I was so overwhelmed that all I wanted to do was to put my head in the sand and stay there. for.ever. Well, my problem wasn't even the getting out of debt bit, it was searching and adding all the debts we had. My husband was pretty much in the dark about how bad the situation was and that's where all my shame came from. I sometimes felt that it would be easier to just leave my husband, get a divorce, than telling him the situation we were in. … [Read more...]